Worry!

I was preoccupied with a very difficult crossword puzzle when I was hailed from the veranda by a very young friend who wanted to say hello. He took one look at my face and asked why I looked so worried!

I said that I was preoccupied with some mental gymnastics and nor worried and he simply could not fathom the difference between the two states of mind.  He insisted that being preoccupied with something is also worrying whereas I define worrying as indulging in morbid thoughts of negative developments in the future.  This cartoon I think explains it quite nicely.

Please click on the following image to get a larger resolution. I thank Mitch for this lead.
Worry

What do you think? Is being preoccupied with a puzzle the same as worrying?  The dictionary appears to support my contention though not quite in the same words.

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16 Responses to Worry!

  1. Grannymar says:

    I like your definition of worry. I gave it up for lent………

    Twenty years ago and never missed it! 😉
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  2. Looney says:

    Given that many people worry without spending any time puzzling over how to extricate themselves from the situation, it would seem that they are different. As for me, I usually start worrying that I won’t be able to get the puzzle solved by some self imposed deadline, so worry and puzzling are clearly linked.
    Looney recently posted..Those who live by the Pao will die by the Pao.

  3. Alan G says:

    I would also have to agree that worrying would definitely be tied to most puzzles because anything less than the completion or solving of such a puzzle certainly casts a shadow over the self-perceived intelligence of the one who has stepped up to take on the challange… 😀
    Alan G recently posted..The Pit Bull Conundrum….

  4. wisewebwoman says:

    Worrying has different meanings: i.e a dog worrying a bone for instance.
    Worry is not a choice, as some people have it, it can be a trait like height or red hair. I don’t worry in the traditional sense but a side effect of depression can be free-floating anxiety which others might view as worry.
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    • I am neither depressed nor anxious about anything! But the chewing the bone reminds me that the dog chewing the bone tastes its own blood from its gums and thinks that it is actually chewing the bone that tastes of blood!

  5. There’s a big difference to me between working on a problem and being anxious about events. The first is fun. The second not nearly so much.
    Cheerful Monk recently posted..Head for the Hills

  6. Two different things entirely…but it is possible that our faces express something that those who happen upon us may misinterpret..especially very young people who are used to seeing us with a smile for them.
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  7. tammy j says:

    i’m sorry. i can’t think clearly. i’m still laughing.
    perhaps i don’t take life seriously enough.
    but i truly laughed out loud at that cartoon.
    tammy j recently posted..little sister is watching you

  8. Cathy in NZ says:

    not in the same league…

    and just because a facial expression suggests one thing, don’t assume that it means xzy every darn time…

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